In Central Java, Indonesia, sisters Putri (23) and Intan (19) followed their mother Setyaningsih’s final instruction: “Do not disturb neighbor.” After her death on October 13, the sisters did not seek help, living 19 days without food except for well water. When neighbors discovered them, they were nearly unconscious, demonstrating how one phrase can inadvertently lead to life-threatening consequences.
Sisters Survived 19 Days Beside Deceased Mother
The sisters’ home went unnoticed until October 31 when the smell of decomposition drew neighbors’ attention. The mother’s body was already severely decomposed, and the sisters were critically dehydrated. This tragic incident illustrates how avoiding “trouble” for others can escalate into a serious crisis.
Summary
Do Not Disturb Neighbor: Lessons on Family Planning
Respecting loved ones’ wishes is essential, yet failing to plan can endanger lives. Tools like SmartWills online wills provide a practical solution, enabling families to record medical wishes, emergency contacts, and inheritance instructions. A properly executed will transforms respect into actionable care.
The Importance of Wills and Family Responsibility
This case emphasizes family responsibility and the importance of wills. Without prior guidance, sisters faced unnecessary physical and emotional strain. By creating an online will, families ensure that wishes are honored without jeopardizing anyone’s safety.
Conclusion: Turning Silence into Love and Protection
The tragedy of the sisters who lived 19 days beside their mother shows that following “Do not disturb neighbor” without proper planning can be dangerous. Writing a will does not mean fearing death; it demonstrates love, responsibility, and foresight. Platforms like SmartWills allow people to actively secure peace of mind for their loved ones, even after they are gone.
